Set Up Pairling Helper
Use this page, https://pairling.dev/start, on the Mac you want to control.
Pairling Helper prepares your Mac for iPhone control. It installs the background runtime, checks Tailscale remote access readiness, and opens a pairing invitation for your iPhone without modifying macOS privacy databases.
Normal setup
Download the signed and notarized Pairling Helper package, open Pairling Helper, then choose Set Up & Pair This Mac.
Remote access
Pairling can pair locally on the same Wi-Fi, but the product is remote-ready only after your iPhone can reach the Mac through Tailscale. Install Tailscale on both devices and connect them to the same tailnet.
Advanced
The command line helper is still available for diagnostics and support, but it is not the primary first-run path.